If you are named Cradle Of Filth, perhaps a mess is to be expected. That’s what’s been unfolding for the veteran English metal band. Last weekend, two band members, spouses Zoë M. Federoff and Marek “Ashok” Šmerda, quit Cradle Of Filth, citing “unprofessional behavior” including management withholding proper compensation and band leader Dani Filth’s “foolish,” much-publicized decision to collaborate with …